Do Not Worry

Matthew 6:34 "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble."

There are so many things these days that can give us cause to worry. Anxiety medication is being prescribed at unprecedented levels. We have conflicts going on around the world, political upheaval is rampant, our economy is in disarray, many people have lost their jobs or are in danger of being layed off, and the list could go on and on. With this in mind, I received a very timely e-mail from my manager yesterday. She frequently sends out a "quote of the day" or some other encouraging or motivational excerpt. I want to share it with you today, and I hope that it will help you resist the temptation to worry about all of these things that are beyond our control anyway. Blessings on your day as you TRUST in the LORD!

Excerpted from Attitude Is Everything by Vicki Hitzges

Rule #1 Wait to Worry

“Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, but only empties today of its strength.” ~Charles Spurgeon

I used to worry. A lot. The more I fretted, the more proficient I became at it. Anxiety begets anxiety. I even worried that I worried too much! Ulcers might develop. My health could fail. My finances could be depleted to pay the hospital bills. To get some perspective, I visited a well known Dallas businessman, Fred Smith. Fred mentored such luminaries as motivational whiz Zig Ziglar, business guru Ken Blanchard and leadership expert John Maxwell. Fred listened as I poured out my concerns and then said, “Vicki, you need to learn to wait to worry.”

As the words sank in, I asked Fred if he ever spent time fretting. To my surprise, he confessed that in years gone by he had been a top-notch worrier! As a young man, Fred landed a high-paying executive job. Yet he’d only earned a high school degree. He was afraid someone with a college degree would come along and snag his job. Each night after work, he sat with a cup of coffee worrying about losing his position because he thought no other job could compare to the one he had. As he fretted, he started to realize that he wasn’t anxious based on fact, he was anxious based on his imagination. He was borrowing trouble.

He thought to himself, “Fred, are you a better, more valuable employee if you stay up late worrying? Do you do your best work if you’re tired and tense?” “I decided that I would wait to worry!” he explained. “I decided that I’d wait until I actually had a reason to worry – something that was happening, not just something that might happen – before I worried. As it turns out, I never lost that job. My boss was very happy with my performance.”

“When I’m tempted to get alarmed,” he confided, “I tell myself, ‘Fred, you’ve got to wait to worry! Until you know differently, don’t worry.’ And I don’t. Waiting to worry helps me develop the habit of not worrying and that helps me not be tempted to worry.”

Are you worried? Take Fred’s advice: Wait!

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